Just read an article which I find is very true, it is about how to maintain a healthy relationship after having babies. The importance to balance up my time for my hubby, baby and career is my concern now, I don't mind to sacrifice my rest time or my pay check if that could bring us a happy family. After all, arrival of baby is to strengthen the family bond between us, not to torn us apart...
Becoming parents is a joyful time for couples. You bond over baby, you delight in each milestone. But once the children start arriving, it's an ongoing struggle to make time for yourself, for each other, and most of all, as a couple.
In the most successful marriages, couples make it a point to spend time together. So, designate a regular slot to share some couple time. Don’t waste it discussing your children or the household budget. Use it to keep each other updated on what's happening in your life, and for having fun!
So my plans are:
1. Travel once a year with hubby without bringing baby along.
2. Dinner or movies date twice a month.
3. Cook at least once a week.
Hope babies will understand this theory too... :D
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